How can you tell when a friend or an acquaintance has a crush on you How do you know that longtime friend of yours isn’t holding back his feelings and wallowing in the fear of rejection.
This Is How To Know When You Are The Side Chic In Your Relationship
We have some ways to know below:
1. They act shy around only ‘YOU’
This is different for everyone, but sudden shyness may be a sign of attraction. The best explanation is that they’re probably coming to terms with the complex thoughts and feeling that accompany crushing on a friend…or they’re just plain nervous around you now. Either way, it may be a good indicator.
2. They try to please you
Friends usually look out for friends, we all know this to be the truth. But, if this one particular friend begins to do things that defy the “friend zone,” even if that means sacrificing something themselves, it may be a sign that they’re falling for you.
3. They avoid you in public
If you are among other friends and this one particular friend purposely avoids you, it may be a sign of a crush. To rule out hatred as a reason, notice how they act when you’re together again. Do they all of a sudden get super friendly like they never avoided you in the first place? They probably have a crush and don’t want others to know about it.
4. They begin to imitate you
Imitation is one of the strongest indicators of attraction. This has been demonstrated in a number of scientific studies involving psychology and mechanisms of attraction.
So, if you notice that your friend all of a sudden mirrors your body language or other behaviors, if may be a sign that they’re attracted to you.
5. They are concerned with the way they look around you
One of the more obvious ways to know your friend is crushing on you is if they suddenly become meticulous with their appearance. This is especially the case when they know you are going to be somewhere, and make the extra effort to look their best.
6. They are less busy when you need them
Here’s another obvious sign, as when we’re attracted to someone we always want to be around them. So, if your friends tell you that he or she decided to go somewhere after your name was mentioned…well, that’s a pretty good indication. They also never seem to miss even the most insignificant of events when you’re around.
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